Why are we still doing the same thing? So you've done the reading. You understand your attachment style, your patterns, why you react the way you do in relationships. You can name it, explain it, trace it back to where it started. So why are you still doing the same thing? Here's what so many therapeutic approaches miss: your relationship patterns aren't stored in your understanding. They're stored in your body. Think about learning to walk....
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